children, family

The blended family

Picture the scene; you come across a party of four, in a restaurant talking absolute bollocks and then hitting Brighton pier on the 2p machines, the four of them look like they are just double dating and enjoying the evening, for the most massive part you would be right but when you see these four,… Continue reading The blended family

family, love, Uncategorized

The pin in the universe of life.

Do you ever live your life and think is that you? I see my life and sometimes when I'm out in the garden I look into our room and see what I've built the last few years and think how the fuck did I get here? Did I really want to be here? Is this… Continue reading The pin in the universe of life.

awareness, daily life, health, mental health, Wedding

I do and I don’t love my perfect life….

I am not one of these strong women who hide their problems from their partner, family or the world, quite frankly I don’t know what good comes from hiding problems, whether it be financially, emotionally or just plain right ‘meh’, I am not one of these bloggers that plasters a fake smile over her face… Continue reading I do and I don’t love my perfect life….

marriage, Money, Uncategorized, Wedding

Getting married on a budget

I read about the woman who threw a hissy fit because her guests wouldn't pay about £800 towards her wedding and it was costing about forty grand for a fairytale wedding but let me ask this: why are you getting married? Is it because you love that other person so much that you just wanted… Continue reading Getting married on a budget

family, mental health

Mums without their children

There is a massive stigma when it comes to mums that 'choose' to live away from their offspring and I have had funny looks and questions asking me why and normally when I explain the situation almost everyone understands but I can still see the look on their faces as if to say I was or am a bad mother.

adventure, daily life, family, love, marriage

This man..

The man who saved me, let me introduce you to him properly; his name is Adam and he is my absolute shining star in my life (aside from my wonderful children of course) without this man my life would be duller, sadder and I will say, my life probably would have ended a very long… Continue reading This man..

daily life, geek, love, Money

Turn left

Fortune Teller: You turned left. But what if you turned right? What then? Donna: Let go of my hands. Fortune Teller: What if it changes? What if you go right? What if you could still go right? Donna: Stop it! What’s on my back? What is it? What’s on my back?! Fortune Teller: Make the… Continue reading Turn left

friends, love

I wish two lives could collide

Here I am sat in my bathroom just having looked back at 'my memories' on Facebook and reminded of some questions I posed the kids back in 2015 and like a hammer punch to the chest, it hits me that I miss them, their sweet answers of how beautiful I am etc is making me… Continue reading I wish two lives could collide

Uncategorized

The Adventure Begins

Marriage, Geeky, Our Way! "Always." – Severus Snape 'Even after all this time, always' it's the smallest quote but the one that means the most to me, which is silly really as myself and my husband have only been together for just over two years but it felt like a lifetime of waiting for him,… Continue reading The Adventure Begins