“I was once a man, not a great man, not a saintly man, but a good man, and a man nonetheless.”
― Barbara T. Cerny,
So who is the man who saved me? He is a brilliant, wonderful man that doesn’t give himself enough credit, he is a magnificent father and step father and works goddamn hard to give us a nicer life, plus also he is ridiculously hot!
I do wonder how I became so lucky having him, he truly is my world and I am his too, I have never had that loving feeling of ever wanting to care for anyone (considering I was married for 15 years lol), this man makes me want to do it all and never let him move a muscle but of course it’s him and he would never allow me to do that, he tells me we are a partnership apparently so try as I might to live in the 1950’s this guy isn’t letting me.
He is a massive nerd and as you can see from the above photo we embraced that whole side of our life on our wedding day, our ring promises were even personal to us and was majorly geeky, apparently one of the reasons he loves me is because I let him be him and I encourage him to do the things he wants to do instead of saying ‘you are too old’ or ‘you are so sad’, he loves dungeons and dragons and try as he might he wants me to play with him, I want to but I am scared of looking like a twat in front of the club of nerds he goes too, I’d be quite happy if it was a two player game and playing with the kids is just a headache, he loves his Xbox and I will never ever be THAT wife and tell him he is too old for it, if he didn’t do those things he wouldn’t be the man I fell in love with would it? just like when he gets a bit hansy with the booby department and I tell him to stop, the next day I miss his wandering hands, so I will never tell him to stop doing something or try to make him a different person (well maybe cut down on the talking during films..he has got a bit better!)
I am so glad he messaged me because I don’t know where I’d be or who I’d be with, the last piece of the puzzle clipped together the day he messaged me.
The Man Who Saved Me, the man I fell in love with, the man who I now call my husband.